3 questions, can you please help?

how to lose 10 pounds: (i dont advise you to do this because im sure at 14 your still growing and if you do this, youll be 18 or 19 and grow disporportionate) be bulimic or anorexic, on the other hand if you just want a more fit body work out like a maniac, eat low to no carbs, only fruits and veggies, eat breakfast to get your metabolism going. honestly dont starve yourself. my girlfriend had eating problems and now has a super disporportionate body. one of her boobs is a c cup the other an a and she has crazy love handles and super skinny legs. when your growing make sure you get all the vitamins and nutrition you need. i say when you go in the water just put your hair up in a messy bun. its cute and no one will see the frizzyness...or after your done swimming tie it in a side ponytail. as for making him fall for you. be yourself, be confident, smile, play hard to get, dont try to be around him the whole trip let him follow you. and just be really energetic and happy =] BE YOURSELF MOST OF ALL. be a little humorous. sassy. you got it girl. and if he still doesnt fall for you trust me....there will be more and you will find someone worth your time.