Are there any shampoos or products that can get rid of extremely poofy, dry/damaged hair?!?

My hair is extremely poofy and a little bit dry and damaged. I'm looking for the best products that can heal my hair and get to not poof at all! My hair is naturally wavy/curly and it is a pig poof of frizz. I mean the first thing people say when they see me is wow she has big hair! So it's really hard for me to manage and lately i've been straightening it and then curling it to get it to be manageable but i hate doing that to my hair so any products or styling tips are so worth to have naturally calm non-poofy hair!(: